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January 8, 2017

new year, new me...

...hahahahahahajust kidding.

Actually, this year I have decided I want to be just me. I don't want there to be anything new.
 + I already got a new job a couple months back
 + I moved a couple months before that
 + I started an exercise that totally freaked me out 6 months ago and now I'm totally addicted
 + I started this super awesome blog and Instagram

I think I'm good.



Is it weird that I never started making resolutions until I became a mom? Apparently I was too young and carefree to give a shit. Then you pop out a kid and life is all about setting goals and resolutions.

In all honesty though, I have been focusing really hard on accepting all my bad assery as a great thing and trying to stop always wanting to change who I am. Because fuck you, I like who I am
 + I love to cuss so instead of trying to minimize it, I think I need to hang out with people who like it     as much as I do.
 + I love dresses, but I am horrible at walking in heels. I still try on special occasions, but I'll stick to     wedges on a more regular basis.
 + I am a complete and utter klutz. Literally always falling down, hurting myself, spilling on myself.       A bonafide, hot mess.

Don't get me wrong though, I am all for bettering yourself. I do not, however, feel like it should be a once of year type of thing, BUT if that's what gets you motivated then more power to ya.
It actually really pisses me off when people shit on others for making the goal to lose weight every year. I don't really care if you fail 100 times at trying to losing weight or exercise. If you want to keep trying, then keep god damn trying every year! And good for you for keeping on keeping on. And all those posts about have you failed already on like day fucking 5. NO, i haven't failed because it's day 5. It's not even possible to fail your goals regardless of what they are as long as you keep trying.



I actually have a couple goals. I refuse to call them resolutions though because I set them a couple months ago and the "goal" is to start them/try them/achieve them (depending on what they are) by the time I turn 30. That's more than the span of 2017, fyi.

I had a semi mid-life crisis or maybe just a "i'm turning 30 pretty soon" crisis that I decided that I want to do all the things that I have a passion for, but I haven't been doing. Yeah, I know that sounds like a no-fucking-brainer, but clearly it took me a while to get there.

Anyways, I'm super excited about 2017 and not trying to be a new me, but embracing the old me.



What are you excited about this year?


xx,

#HOTMESSMOM

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